True Selves: Understanding Transsexualism--For Families, Friends, Coworkers, and Helping Professionals
by Mildred L. Brown, Chloe Ann Rounsley
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Author: Chloe Ann Rounsley, Mildred L. BrownEdition: Paperback
Audio: English (Unknown); English (Original Language); English (Published)
Published: 2003-03-24
ISBN: 0787967025
Number of pages: 288
Publisher: Jossey-Bass
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Book Review: Transgendered? Confused? MTF, FTM, TG, TV, TS, et al., Buy this Book! Great RESOURCE, and possible Sanity Saver.
Summary: 5 Stars
Gender Bending, Crossdressing, Transsexualism, Shemales, Drag Queens, Female Impersonators, Homosexuals and Lesbians, Transvestites, Intersexed Individuals, and Transgendered Individuals of all flavors are discussed; Terminology is explained in order to reduce confusion. In fact,
Confusion is also covered.
Motivations for crossdressing are discussed, and Sexual Orientation (vs. Gender Identity) is explained. This book reveals and explains many aspects of Transgendered behavior, activities, and Needs (psychological, emotional, physical, etc.). Social Stigma is discussed, and the need of support groups is covered. Many Resources are given at the back of the book (see below).
I recommend True Selves: Understanding Transsexualism--For Families, Friends, Coworkers, and Helping Professionals to all those who are interested in the subjects, and to those listed in the title, but I strongly recommend this book for ANYONE with "Gender Issues" (Gender Identity problems, worries, desires, confusion, et al.). I truly wish that I would have had this book a long time ago. I had to piece it all together from Nursing books, psychology texts, magazine articles, research, books, long talks with people of various "Alternative" lifestyles, and by experimentation. I even dated a Transsexual, and had long talks with her about these subjects. From everything that I have learned and from everything I learned vicariously through Transsexuals, I highly recommend True Selves as a starting point or as a great resource guide for TG/TS/TV/CD and others who know, are related to, or work with these individuals!
Aside from the fantastic amount of information and quotes from those who have been in therapy (many stories correlated to my experiences as a child, teen, and adult), and the wonderful advice about therapy,
seeking much needed assistance, and finding ways to "cope" then take action to live a better life, this book also contains something I have not encountered previously:
NAMES and ADDRESSES of Organizations which help Transsexuals.
Regardless of whether a person is simply confused, suicidal, MTF, or FTM, transgendered, etc., these resources and organizations are available to help a person remain with us, find help, find therapists, find the right
doctors.... heck, even find Shoes!
This is a list of the Organizations given at the back of the book, and if you purchase the book you will have the Addresses, Phone Numbers, Contact information, and a bonus list of Web Sites so you can access more
valid information without trolling the Internet or logging numerous searches into your work station computer, during break time or lunch.
Not only will you avoid leaving a Tranny Trail on your work PC, but this book gives several good examples of "coming out" letters and information about Transitioning at work; job related issues are explained, in detail. In fact, True Selves also provides sample Feedback from "coming out" letters and strategies for coming out to parents, family, and friends. One idea was very good--impressive--but you can buy the book to discover the idea.
I really believe that most people should read this book, because True Selves: Understanding Transsexualism--For Families, Friends, Coworkers, and Helping Professionals deflates the ignorant stance of those who would be nasty about such a situation.
Books that I have read in the past discussed a LOT of negativity and
horrible treatment of "Trannies," but this book shows that a tremendous amount of Progress has been made to give Transsexuals basic human rights, and even decent bathroom access. I am quite impressed by how much has
changed since I began researching this subject in the early '90s! It seems that there is not as much to fear as previously reported. The Internet is probably contributing to more enlightened views, but also True Selves shows that those who persevered in the past created a better working environment, better laws, better working conditions, etc.
Overall, True Selves: Understanding Transsexualism--For Families, Friends, Coworkers, and Helping Professionals is good news for anyone with "Gender Issues," and I personally find the book to be a great relief as I research to figure out personal matters.
Nearly every subject related to Gender Identity, Sexual Orientation, and the need to be the opposite sex is covered in this book. Anyone involved with Psychology, Sociology, the public, employees, or "Alternative" people should at least peruse this book, but I believe that Transgendered Individuals of all flavors will get the most out of this book. In fact, if anything goes awry with the suggestions in the book (i.e., if ignorance prevails), you can hand this book to the person, and point out a section. Often, if people are forced to see that something is a Medical Condition, their attitude changes. If not....
Here is a list of resources that will be available to you, if you purchase the book;
Harry Benjamin International Gender Dysphoria Association (HBIGDA)
American Educational Gender Information Service (AEGIS)
Gender Education and Advocacy (GEA)
The International Foundation for Gender Education (IFGE)
FTM International
Intersex Society of North America (ISNA)
Renaissance Transgender Association, Inc.
Parents, Family & Friends of Lesbians & Gays (PFLAG)
Ingersoll Gender Center
Lavender Youth Recreation and Information Center (LYRIC)
Transfamily of Cleveland
TransGender San Francisco
Mermaids
...and a list of websites (with Ph.D credentials, etc.).
For a long while, I had this on my wish list (hidden), but I was concerned about coworkers, friends, and college students seeing my research choices. However I have discovered that most people (even in college) are not that bright, nor worth suppressing your natural inclinations to appease. If you but the book, you can always hide the purchase on your list. ;-) I study Psychology, in college and on my own, and I am very impressed with this book and the way it handles the subjects. This list of resources, alone, is worth the purchase price. Honestly, I wish I would have had this book ten years ago.
Note: True Selves: Understanding Transsexualism--For Families, Friends, Coworkers, and Helping Professionals may appear to be only for those listed in the title, but it speaks to the person with Transgender issues, and is definitely written with those individuals in mind. Regardless of where you stand (curious, questioning, Knowing, TS, TV, TG, CD, or whatever the case) this book is a fantastic resource guide and could be a godsend to teenagers or young adults with Gender Identity issues. No matter what age you are, however, this book is written to speak to everyone, and is very respectful to all individuals.
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Summary of True Selves: Understanding Transsexualism--For Families, Friends, Coworkers, and Helping Professionals
Combines authoritative information and humanitarian insight into the transsexual experienceFilled with wisdom and understanding, this groundbreaking book paints a vivid portrait of conflicts transsexuals face on a daily basis--and the courage they must summon as they struggle to reveal their true being to themselves and others. True Selves offers valuable guidance for those who are struggling to understand these people and their situations.
Using real life stories, actual letters, and other compelling examples, the authors give a clear understanding of what it means to be transsexual. They also give other useful advice, including how to deal compassionately with these commonly misunderstood individuals--by keeping an open heart, communicating fears, pain and support, respecting choices.
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