To Hate Like This Is to Be Happy Forever: A Thoroughly Obsessive, Intermittently Uplifting, and Occasionally Unbiased Account of the Duke-North Carolina Basketball Rivalry

To Hate Like This Is to Be Happy Forever: A Thoroughly Obsessive, Intermittently Uplifting, and Occasionally Unbiased Account of the Duke-North Carolina Basketball Rivalry
by Will Blythe

To Hate Like This Is to Be Happy Forever: A Thoroughly Obsessive, Intermittently Uplifting, and Occasionally Unbiased Account of the Duke-North Carolina Basketball Rivalry
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Author: Will Blythe
Edition: Hardcover
Audio: English (Published)
Format: Bargain Price
Published: 2006-03-01
ISBN: N/A
Number of pages: 368
Publisher: HarperCollins

Book Reviews of To Hate Like This Is to Be Happy Forever: A Thoroughly Obsessive, Intermittently Uplifting, and Occasionally Unbiased Account of the Duke-North Carolina Basketball Rivalry

Book Review: diagnosis: Carolina Fever
Summary: 3 Stars

The book is more a diagnosis/autobiography of the author's anti-duke psychosis set in the back drop of the 2004-2005 championship season than a history of the rivalry itself. The book aspires to be an analysis of why a seemingly well bred well educated person would have such strong animosity to an otherwise academically respected university and well run athletic program. At times it does so, but more often it is a confessional of the hatred. Other reviewers are correct, the book is very humorous and contains many anecdotes the reader will feel compelled to share with others. My favorite part of the book is its analysis of Melvin Scott, a one time starter who struggles to adapt to his role on the bench and who relies on his charismatic christian faith for sustenance. The agnostic author, raised a Presbyterian, expresses discomfort with charismatic worship, but treats Melvin Scott with great respect. The book's greatest failing is when it purports to analogize Duke University with overweening ambition in contrast to UNC's respect for place. Those passages are based too much on stereotype and the author's acknowledged bias. Having grown up in Durham and graduated from UNC I know the stereotypes (like all stereotypes) are occasionaly true and often false. I was raised to respect a worthy opponent: I'm a Carolina fan who respects Duke and a Red Sox fan who respects the Yankees. I hoped this book would shed some light on why intelligent level headed people lose all sense of balance and impartiality when rooting for their team and against their rival. The answer seems to be they just do, whether out of jealosy for the rival success or the need for a release. Did I enjoy the book? Absolutely. Is it a literary classic worthy of a "5"? No.

Summary of To Hate Like This Is to Be Happy Forever: A Thoroughly Obsessive, Intermittently Uplifting, and Occasionally Unbiased Account of the Duke-North Carolina Basketball Rivalry

"It is a basketball rivalry that simply has no equal. Duke vs. North Carolina is Ali vs. Frazier, the Giants vs. the Dodgers, the Red Sox vs. the Yankees. Hell, it's bigger than that. This is the Democrats vs. the Republicans, the Yankees vs. the Confederates, capitalism vs. communism. All right, okay, the Life Force vs. the Death Instinct, Eros vs. Thanatos. Is that big enough?"

The basketball rivalry between Duke and North Carolina is the fiercest blood feud in college athletics. To legions of otherwise reasonable adults, it is a conflict that surpasses sports; it is locals against outsiders, elitists against populists, even good against evil. It is thousands of grown men and women with jobs and families screaming themselves hoarse at eighteen-year-old basketball geniuses, trading conspiracy theories in online chat rooms, and weeping like babies when their teams -- when they -- lose. In North Carolina, where both schools are located, the rivalry may be a way of aligning oneself with larger philosophic ideals -- of choosing teams in life -- a tradition of partisanship that reveals the pleasures and even the necessity of hatred.

What makes people invest their identities in what is elsewhere seen as "just a game"? What made North Carolina senator John Edwards risk alienating voters by telling a reporter, "I hate Duke basketball"? What makes people care so much?

The answers have a lot to do with class and culture in the South, and author Will Blythe expands a history of an epic grudge into an examination of family, loyalty, privilege, and Southern manners. As the season unfolds, Blythe, the former longtime literary editor of Esquire and a lifelong Tar Heels fan, immerses himself in the lives of the two teams, eavesdropping on practice sessions, hanging with players, observing the arcane rituals of fans, and struggling to establish some basic human kinship with Duke's players and proponents. With Blythe's access to the coaches, the stars, and the bit players, the book is both a chronicle of personal obsession and a picaresque record of social history.

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