The Price of Privilege: How Parental Pressure and Material Advantage Are Creating a Generation of Disconnected and Unhappy Kids

The Price of Privilege: How Parental Pressure and Material Advantage Are Creating a Generation of Disconnected and Unhappy Kids
by Madeline Levine

The Price of Privilege: How Parental Pressure and Material Advantage Are Creating a Generation of Disconnected and Unhappy Kids
List Price: $25.95
Our Price: $8.95
You Save: $17.00 (66%)
Availability: Usually ships in 1-2 business days
Buy Used: from $3.19 (click here)
Category: Book
See more book details and other editions


(Click here)
Buy this book at online book store in your country
Canada | UK | Germany | France

Book Summary Information

Author: Madeline Levine
Edition: Hardcover
Published: 2006-07-01
ISBN: 0060595841
Number of pages: 256
Publisher: HarperCollins

Book Reviews of The Price of Privilege: How Parental Pressure and Material Advantage Are Creating a Generation of Disconnected and Unhappy Kids

Book Review: Money Doesn't Always Buy Happiness...
Summary: 5 Stars

I'll jump right in and say it -- my husband and I may very well be at the lower end of the target demographic for this book. We both work full time, we live in a relatively affluent area of Northern California, own a home, have a Prius, and are currently contemplating whether to send our kids to public or private school. Nevertheless, I was pretty skeptical about a book that treats upper class kids as an "at risk" group, similar to kids who come from poverty-level backgrounds. Yes, the stories and anecdotes sprinkled throughout the book made me feel sad for these kids and families who seem so detached from themselves and each other. But how can you argue that these poor little rich boys and girls deserve just as much pity and focus as kids who literally have nothing but the shirt on their backs?

The truth is a bit more complicated. Like it or not, children who come from more affluent backgrounds are still more likely to rise to a prominent position in our society -- whether that be political, educational, or social -- than kids from a lower socioeconomic background. These are incredibly influential roles that play a huge part in determining the future of our country and our world. So we should be concerned when we hear about the rising number of affluent kids who leave the nest with zero sense of self or personal accountability, drug and alcohol problems, damaged moral compasses, and a general lack of compassion for his/her fellow humans. Whether you "feel sorry" for these children or not is beside the point...the problem is real and these kids can and frequently do grow into adults who have a lot of clout but little interest in leaving this planet a better place than when they arrived.

Levine's book clearly illustrates the challenges these kids face and the repercussions their damaged lifestyles have - not just on themselves but on families, friends, and an ever widening circle of individuals as the kids grow into adults. But lest you think this is one of those downer books that spends hundreds of pages telling you what's wrong without providing a solution, Levine also points out some potential steps parents and communities can take to provide affluent (and indeed ALL) kids with opportunities to become and stay well-rounded, contributing individuals.

Summary of The Price of Privilege: How Parental Pressure and Material Advantage Are Creating a Generation of Disconnected and Unhappy Kids

Madeline Levine has been a practicing psychologist for twenty-five years, but it was only recently that she began to observe a new breed of unhappy teenager. When a bright, personable fifteen-year-old girl, from a loving and financially comfortable family, came into her office with the word empty carved into her left forearm, Levine was startled. This girl and her message seemed to embody a disturbing pattern Levine had been observing. Her teenage patients were bright, socially skilled, and loved by their affluent parents. But behind a veneer of achievement and charm, many of these teens suffered severe emotional problems. What was going on?

Conversations with educators and clinicians across the country as well as meticulous research confirmed Levine's suspicions that something was terribly amiss. Numerous studies show that privileged adolescents are experiencing epidemic rates of depression, anxiety disorders, and substance abuse -- rates that are higher than those of any other socioeconomic group of young people in this country. The various elements of a perfect storm -- materialism, pressure to achieve, perfectionism, disconnection -- are combining to create a crisis in America's culture of affluence. This culture is as unmanageable for parents -- mothers in particular -- as it is for their children. While many privileged kids project confidence and know how to make a good impression, alarming numbers lack the basic foundation of psychological development: an authentic sense of self. Even parents often miss the signs of significant emotional problems in their "star" children.

In this controversial look at privileged families, Levine offers thoughtful, practical advice as she explodes one child-rearing myth after another. With empathy and candor, she identifies parenting practices that are toxic to healthy self-development and that have contributed to epidemic levels of depression, anxiety, and substance abuse in the most unlikely place -- the affluent family.

Adolescent Psychology Books

Book Subjects
Most talked about in Education Matters!
$100,000 Teacher: A Solution to America's Declining Public School System (Capital Currents) (Capital Currents) Image$100,000 Teacher: A Solution to America's Declining Public School System (Capital Currents) (Capital Currents)
by Brian Crosby
Capital Books; Published: 2002-03-19; Hardcover; Book
Best price: $3.39
Price in other shops: $24.95
Teaching Community: A Pedagogy of Hope ImageTeaching Community: A Pedagogy of Hope
by bell hooks
Routledge; Published: 2003-08-25; Paperback; Book
Best price: $12.35
Price in other shops: $22.95
Teaching to Transgress: Education as the Practice of Freedom ImageTeaching to Transgress: Education as the Practice of Freedom
by bell hooks
Routledge; Published: 1994-09-12; Paperback; Book
Best price: $14.47
Price in other shops: $27.95
Empowering Education: Critical Teaching for Social Change ImageEmpowering Education: Critical Teaching for Social Change
by Ira Shor
University Of Chicago Press; Published: 1992-11-01; Paperback; Book
Best price: $17.57
Price in other shops: $22.00
How Children Become Violent: Keeping Your Kids Out of Gangs, Terrorist Organizations, and Cults ImageHow Children Become Violent: Keeping Your Kids Out of Gangs, Terrorist Organizations, and Cults
by Kathryn Seifert Phd
Acanthus Publishing; Published: 2006-12-29; Paperback; Book
Best price: $12.00
Price in other shops: $19.95
One Nation, Underprivileged: Why American Poverty Affects Us All ImageOne Nation, Underprivileged: Why American Poverty Affects Us All
by Mark Robert Rank
Oxford University Press, USA; Published: 2005-07-28; Paperback; Book
Best price: $14.34
Price in other shops: $19.95
The Disciplined Mind: Beyond Facts and Standardized Tests, the K-12 Education that Every Child Deserves ImageThe Disciplined Mind: Beyond Facts and Standardized Tests, the K-12 Education that Every Child Deserves
by Howard Gardner
Penguin (Non-Classics); Published: 2000-09-01; Paperback; Book
Best price: $6.99
Price in other shops: $16.00
Becoming Somebody: Toward A Social Psychology Of School ImageBecoming Somebody: Toward A Social Psychology Of School
by Philip Wexler U
Routledge; Published: 1992-05-01; Paperback; Book
Best price: $43.13
Price in other shops: $54.95
Nurture the Nature: Understanding and Supporting Your Child's Unique Core Personality ImageNurture the Nature: Understanding and Supporting Your Child's Unique Core Personality
by Michael Gurian
Jossey-Bass; Published: 2009-01-26; Paperback; Book
Best price: $11.53
Price in other shops: $16.95
The Power of Play: Learning What Comes Naturally ImageThe Power of Play: Learning What Comes Naturally
by David Elkind
Da Capo Press; Published: 2007-12-24; Paperback; Book
Best price: $8.85
Price in other shops: $14.95
Similar Books and other products
Best Friends, Worst Enemies: Understanding the Social Lives of Children ImageBest Friends, Worst Enemies: Understanding the Social Lives of Children
by Michael Thompson, Cathe O'Neill-Grace, Lawrence J. Cohen, Catherine O'Neill Grace
Ballantine Books; Published: 2002-07-30; Paperback; Book
Best price: $4.40
Price in other shops: $14.95
The New Rules of College Admissions: Ten Former Admissions Officers Reveal What it Takes to Get Into College Today (Fireside Books (Fireside)) ImageThe New Rules of College Admissions: Ten Former Admissions Officers Reveal What it Takes to Get Into College Today (Fireside Books (Fireside))
by Michael London
Fireside; Published: 2006-08-28; Paperback; Book
Best price: $11.02
Price in other shops: $14.00
A Nation of Wimps: The High Cost of Invasive Parenting ImageA Nation of Wimps: The High Cost of Invasive Parenting
by Hara Estroff Marano
Broadway; Published: 2008-04-15; Hardcover; Book
Best price: $14.72
Price in other shops: $23.95
What Colleges Don't Tell You (And Other Parents Don't Want You to Know): 272 Secrets for Getting Your Kid into the Top Schools ImageWhat Colleges Don't Tell You (And Other Parents Don't Want You to Know): 272 Secrets for Getting Your Kid into the Top Schools
by Elizabeth Wissner-Gross
Hudson Street Press; Published: 2006-08-03; Hardcover; Book
Best price: $6.59
Price in other shops: $23.95
Too Much of a Good Thing: Raising Children of Character in an Indulgent Age ImageToo Much of a Good Thing: Raising Children of Character in an Indulgent Age
by Daniel J. Kindlon
Published: 2003-01-08; Paperback; Book
Best price: $13.31
Queen Bee Moms & Kingpin Dads: Dealing with the Parents, Teachers, Coaches, and Counselors Who Can Make--or Break--Your Child's Future ImageQueen Bee Moms & Kingpin Dads: Dealing with the Parents, Teachers, Coaches, and Counselors Who Can Make--or Break--Your Child's Future
by Rosalind Wiseman, Elizabeth Rapoport
Crown; Published: 2006-03-07; Hardcover; Book
Best price: $5.10
Price in other shops: $25.00
Doing School: How We Are Creating a Generation of Stressed-Out, Materialistic, and Miseducated Students ImageDoing School: How We Are Creating a Generation of Stressed-Out, Materialistic, and Miseducated Students
by Denise Clark Pope
Yale University Press; Published: 2003-01-11; Paperback; Book
Best price: $8.00
Price in other shops: $13.95
OVERACHIEVERS, THE: THE SECRET LIVES OF DRIVEN KIDS ImageOVERACHIEVERS, THE: THE SECRET LIVES OF DRIVEN KIDS
by Alexandra Robbins
Hyperion; Published: 2006-08-08; Hardcover; Book
Best price: $18.89
Price in other shops: $24.95
Raising Respectful Children in a Disrespectful World (Motherhood Club) ImageRaising Respectful Children in a Disrespectful World (Motherhood Club)
by Jill Rigby
Howard Books; Published: 2006-08-01; Paperback; Book
Best price: $7.00
Price in other shops: $14.99
The Blessing of a Skinned Knee: Using Jewish Teachings to Raise Self-Reliant Children ImageThe Blessing of a Skinned Knee: Using Jewish Teachings to Raise Self-Reliant Children
by Wendy Mogel
Penguin (Non-Classics); Published: 2001-11-01; Paperback; Book
Best price: $6.50
Price in other shops: $15.00
Book store. Illustrated catalog of books on different categories