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The Last Lecture CD by Randy Pausch
Book Summary InformationAuthor: Randy Pausch Reader: Erik Singer Edition: Music CD Format: Audiobook, Unabridged Published: 2008-04-01 ISBN: 1401391443 Publisher: HarperAudio
Book Reviews of The Last Lecture CDBook Review: I need at least three more copies... Summary: 5 StarsI spent all day yesterday reading this book (I read slowly and I have four kids, so it took me all day) and laughing. And crying - but not in a "this is such a sad story" way. The tears came from that "this is so honest and touching" place in your chest. I agree with other reviewers that Zaslow did an excellent job of capturing Randy's voice and character in the writing. In the end, I think the book is exactly what Randy wanted it to be: a not-at-all boring message to his children about the things he holds dear.
Backstory: I knew Randy from 1994-1998. My husband (then long-distance boyfriend) was a student in his VR lab at UVa - one of the group Randy took to Disney World when he got tenure and who followed him to Carnegie Mellon when he moved in 1997. I tried to be supportive of the hours and dedication that working in Randy's lab demanded, and as a gesture of gratitude, Randy figured out a way to "officially" allow me to tag along on two SIGGRAPH trips (New Orleans and LA): I dressed up as Alice herself and handed out free CDs of the beta version at the conferences. I don't think there's another professor anywhere who would have been so ... accommodating.
Randy said of the recent Diane Sawyer special, that people who really know him would throw tomatoes at the screen. I didn't feel the need, but Randy is not for everyone. Randy is charismatic and intense. He is demanding, but in a way that makes you WANT to work hard (and if you don't want to work hard, you won't like him). His enthusiasm can be both contagious and off-putting. I'll be honest, I've been known to describe Randy thusly: "The guy's a used car salesman. He could sell ANYTHING." Indeed, he's currently making DYING look cool. I think it's this aspect of his personality that raises some people's hackles (and eyebrows) - how could whatever he's talking about really be that good? I can see how you might feel wary and suspicious. But I promise you, I've never seen him act any other way (it's not phony), and he only tries to "sell" things he really believes in. In other words, he uses his powers for good instead of evil.
Some people receive the news of a terminal diagnosis as a wake-up call and resolve to change their lives for the better with the time they have left. Randy isn't special because he's dying (everybody does that), but because when he got the news and looked at his life, he found that he had already been living it the way he wanted to. Some reviewers point out that his "life lessons" aren't anything new or particularly insightful, but that's not the point. How many people actually LIVE that way? I say you can't criticize the book unless you're really living your life to it's fullest - and then, of course, if you are, you'd hardly criticize the book.
I was silly to have only ordered one copy - I want to give it to other people to read, but they can't have mine. At the very least, I'll need three more copies - after all, I have four kids.
Summary of The Last Lecture CD"We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand." --Randy Pausch A lot of professors give talks titled "The Last Lecture." Professors are asked to consider their demise and to ruminate on what matters most to them. And while they speak, audiences can't help but mull the same question: What wisdom would we impart to the world if we knew it was our last chance? If we had to vanish tomorrow, what would we want as our legacy? When Randy Pausch, a computer science professor at Carnegie Mellon, was asked to give such a lecture, he didn't have to imagine it as his last, since he had recently been diagnosed with terminal cancer. But the lecture he gave--"Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams"--wasn't about dying. It was about the importance of overcoming obstacles, of enabling the dreams of others, of seizing every moment (because "time is all you have...and you may find one day that you have less than you think"). It was a summation of everything Randy had come to believe. It was about living. In this book, Randy Pausch has combined the humor, inspiration and intelligence that made his lecture such a phenomenon and given it an indelible form. It is a book that will be shared for generations to come. Questions for Randy Pausch We were shy about barging in on Randy Pausch's valuable time to ask him a few questions about his expansion of his famous Last Lecture into the book by the same name, but he was gracious enough to take a moment to answer. (See Randy to the right with his kids, Dylan, Logan, and Chloe.) As anyone who has watched the lecture or read the book will understand, the really crucial question is the last one, and we weren't surprised to learn that the "secret" to winning giant stuffed animals on the midway, like most anything else, is sheer persistence. Amazon.com: I apologize for asking a question you must get far more often than you'd like, but how are you feeling? Pausch: The tumors are not yet large enough to affect my health, so all the problems are related to the chemotherapy. I have neuropathy (numbness in fingers and toes), and varying degrees of GI discomfort, mild nausea, and fatigue. Occasionally I have an unusually bad reaction to a chemo infusion (last week, I spiked a 103 fever), but all of this is a small price to pay for walkin' around. Amazon.com: Your lecture at Carnegie Mellon has reached millions of people, but even with the short time you apparently have, you wanted to write a book. What did you want to say in a book that you weren't able to say in the lecture? Pausch: Well, the lecture was written quickly--in under a week. And it was time-limited. I had a great six-hour lecture I could give, but I suspect it would have been less popular at that length ;-). A book allows me to cover many, many more stories from my life and the attendant lessons I hope my kids can take from them. Also, much of my lecture at Carnegie Mellon focused on the professional side of my life--my students, colleagues and career. The book is a far more personal look at my childhood dreams and all the lessons I've learned. Putting words on paper, I've found, was a better way for me to share all the yearnings I have regarding my wife, children and other loved ones. I knew I couldn't have gone into those subjects on stage without getting emotional. Amazon.com: You talk about the importance--and the possibility!--of following your childhood dreams, and of keeping that childlike sense of wonder. But are there things you didn't learn until you were a grownup that helped you do that? Pausch: That's a great question. I think the most important thing I learned as I grew older was that you can't get anywhere without help. That means people have to want to help you, and that begs the question: What kind of person do other people seem to want to help? That strikes me as a pretty good operational answer to the existential question: "What kind of person should you try to be?" Amazon.com: One of the things that struck me most about your talk was how many other people you talked about. You made me want to meet them and work with them--and believe me, I wouldn't make much of a computer scientist. Do you think the people you've brought together will be your legacy as well? Pausch: Like any teacher, my students are my biggest professional legacy. I'd like to think that the people I've crossed paths with have learned something from me, and I know I learned a great deal from them, for which I am very grateful. Certainly, I've dedicated a lot of my teaching to helping young folks realize how they need to be able to work with other people--especially other people who are very different from themselves. Amazon.com: And last, the most important question: What's the secret for knocking down those milk bottles on the midway? Pausch: Two-part answer: 1) long arms 2) discretionary income / persistence Actually, I was never good at the milk bottles. I'm more of a ring toss and softball-in-milk-can guy, myself. More seriously, though, most people try these games once, don't win immediately, and then give up. I've won *lots* of midway stuffed animals, but I don't ever recall winning one on the very first try. Nor did I expect to. That's why I think midway games are a great metaphor for life. "We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand." --Randy Pausch A lot of professors give talks titled "The Last Lecture." Professors are asked to consider their demise and to ruminate on what matters most to them. And while they speak, audiences can't help but mull the same question: What wisdom would we impart to the world if we knew it was our last chance? If we had to vanish tomorrow, what would we want as our legacy? When Randy Pausch, a computer science professor at Carnegie Mellon, was asked to give such a lecture, he didn't have to imagine it as his last, since he had recently been diagnosed with terminal cancer. But the lecture he gave--"Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams"--wasn't about dying. It was about the importance of overcoming obstacles, of enabling the dreams of others, of seizing every moment (because "time is all you have...and you may find one day that you have less than you think"). It was a summation of everything Randy had come to believe. It was about living. In this book, Randy Pausch has combined the humor, inspiration and intelligence that made his lecture such a phenomenon and given it an indelible form. It is a book that will be shared for generations to come.
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