Son of a Preacher Man: My Search for Grace in the Shadows

Son of a Preacher Man: My Search for Grace in the Shadows
by Jay Bakker

Son of a Preacher Man: My Search for Grace in the Shadows
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Author: Jay Bakker
Edition: Paperback
Audio: English (Original Language); English (Unknown); English (Published)
Published: 2002-01-01
ISBN: 006251699X
Number of pages: 256
Publisher: HarperOne

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Book Review: Holiness??
Summary: 1 Stars

Alright, let me first start off by saying I only got about 50 pages into the book. Like some others, I still don't think that Jay gets it. The upshot to his message is that we, as Christians, should be restorers and not destroyers. This was found mostly in the introduction, which I was impressed by.

As I got further into the book, I realized that Jay was using swear words in his text. Personally, I found them non chalant and off the cuff. He came off with the attitude that God will aceept you as his child regardless of how you behave. Though I believe that you should "come as you are" as a lost person, there is a "cleaning up" process, if you will, known as sanctification. There is an element of living holy before the Lord, which I did not see from Jay's comments, stories, or language. What has happened to holy living?!

Thirdly, Jay made the remark that we need to use "secular" music mixed with "Christian" music to appeal to teenagers and young adults. I don't mean to be unkind, but that's a joke. I am 18 years of age and I have seen Christ take a "punk-rocker", as Jay likes to put it, and turn their life around to a point that they find no interest in that type of music anymore. Do I need to become a druggie to appeal to drug abusers? Give me a break.

Needless to say, this book is on top of my trash can.

Summary of Son of a Preacher Man: My Search for Grace in the Shadows

In Son of a Preacher Man Jay Bakker, son of famous televangelists Jim and Tammy Faye Bakker, tells the compelling story of growing up in the glaring lights of a television studio. It's all here: the Bakker family's public disgrace, the fall of the PTL (Praise The Lord) media empire, and Bakker's subsequent plunge into a morass of anxiety and selfdestruction. But Son of a Preacher Man is more than a tell-all -- it is a story that dramatizes the human toll of this tragedy on the Bakker family, with insight into the seismic shifts that nearly destroyed his father and wrecked his parents' longtime marriage. It is the story of a prodigal son's return to the true meaning of God's love and acceptance. It is the story of a boy who was lost, but on the journey back from ruin finds a better way to understand and live life. It is the story of discovering God's grace and of becoming a man.

Despite years of disillusionment, alcoholism, and heartbreak, Bakker managed to continue on his spiritual quest. First he worked to redeem his father...then his faith. Bakker began his service with Revolution, a ministry for skateboarders, punk rockers, and hippiesthe street kids he knew best. He shared the message that saved his life -- the message of Jesus that God's love is infinitely generous. Now Bakker has a large and growing ministry among the tattooed and pierced of downtown Atlanta who feel rejected by the traditional Church yet flock to hear his message of grace and love.

Ultimately, Son of a Preacher Man is a story about resurrection -- of one lost young man, of his disgraced and imprisoned father, and of the hope that can't be destroyed by the machinations of power-hungry preachers, The long, lonely road that Bakker traveled taught him that you can't earn or make yourself worthy of the love of God, but if you are willing to let go and open up, that infinite love is waiting to welcome you home with open arms.


By any standard, Jay Bakker has had it rough. The son of Jim and Tammy Faye Bakker, Jay was only 11 years old when his parents' empire collapsed and his family was vilified as the epitome of televangelism's excesses. Jay Bakker's autobiography, Son of a Preacher Man, unflinchingly addresses all of his family's major scandals, including his father's affair with Jessica Hahn and his mother's battle with drug addiction. Bakker also reveals that by age 13, he had developed a serious drinking problem, and that was only the beginning of a long period of rebellion that intensified during his father's years in prison. After his father's release, Jim and Jay began to rebuild their relationship, and Jay, though still struggling with alcoholism, discerned a calling to ministry. After several false starts he built a ministry to young people in Atlanta called Revolution. As a minister, Bakker's main interest is in the kids that churches overlook--the pierced, tattooed, smoking, drinking kind. The message of this ministry, like the message of this book, is simple: "Jesus loves you for who you are, not who you can become." Bakker says that he still works every day to learn that lesson, and to pass it on to others, as he does with some eloquence in Son of a Preacher Man. --Paul Power

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