She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman
by Ian Kerner
List Price:
Our Price: $9.06
You Save: $6.93 (43%)
Availability: Usually ships in 1-2 business days
Buy Used: from $7.65 (click here)
Category: Book
See more book details and other editions
Book Summary Information
Author: Ian KernerReader: Ian Kerner
Edition: Paperback
Audio: English (Unknown); English (Original Language); English (Published)
Published: 2009-02-01
ISBN: 0060538260
Number of pages: 240
Publisher: William Morrow Paperbacks
Book Reviews of She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman
Book Review: Girlfriend APPROVED!
Summary: 5 Stars
I am in a new, very committed relationship that will culminate in marriage with the next year. After having been divorced and having experienced a less than stellar love life during my marriage, I decided to try and change MY behavior and outlook on lovemaking. I very much wanted to my my girlfriend as happy as possible, in every possible way, as I could. I am a firm believer in researching something that you don't know. This book was an eye-opener! I thought I "knew" the female anatomy and how it worked. How wrong I was! I told my girlfriend that I had bought this book. She seemed less than enthused. I was dissappointed.
As I read the book I kept telling her how excited I was, literally and figuratively, to discover things about how wonderful woman are built and how their body reacts to stimulus. I asked her several questions regarding her female anatomy and was surprised that she didn't know, either. She was very interested after that and wanted to check out the book. We both discovered that the reason she was not very interested in the subject was because of past, dissappointing, experiences. She didn't think that this part of lovemaking was a big deal. After reading a few sections of the book she became VERY enthused! She realized that she was normal and that her previous partners just did not have a clue as to how to perform this wonderful task, and, that her feelings AND past (bad) experiences were normal. It does not have to be that way. Now, she is very excited for us to try it. Now all I need to do is finish my deployment here in Iraq and make it happen! Oh, the sweet frustration of having to wait!! Thank you VERY much, Mr. Kerner! This is truly the THINKING man's guide. Guys, if you really care about your lady read this book!
Summary of She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman
As women everywhere will attest, men are "ill-cliterate." Most guys know more about what's under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris. But in the world of She Comes First, the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to sex therapist (and evangelist of the female orgasm) Ian Kerner, oral sex isn't just foreplay, it's coreplay: simply the best way to lead a woman through the entire process of arousal time and time again. Can you say "viva la vulva"?
Fun and informative, She Comes First is a virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and ensuring that sexual fulfillment is mutual.
"When it comes to pleasuring women and conversing in the language of love, cunnilingus should be every man's native tongue," writes clinical sexologist Ian Kerner, Ph.D. in She Comes First, a straightforward, intimate, and exuberant guide to cunnilingus. Kerner first explored "the oral caress" as a way of compensating for his "sexual inadequacies," and quickly learned that women not only welcomed but often preferred "the way of the tongue," reaching orgasm more consistently than through intercourse. Kerner educates readers about the clitoris, "the powerhouse of pleasure," with 18 parts and 8,000 nerve endings (twice as many as the penis) and describes female sexual response from "foreplay" through "coreplay" to "moreplay." A large part of the book is a graphic, detailed primer on "mouth music," including best positions, step-by-step techniques (illustrated), and tips for tongue and fingers. How long should this last? Until the woman has an orgasm or many, says Kerner, and "melts blissfully before your eyes." "The vast majority of women complain about guys who don't like to do it, don't know how to do it, or simply don't do it nearly enough," writes Kerner. This book will change that. Women: Buy it for your partner! --Joan Price
Sex Books
Book Subjects
- Arts & Photography
- Biographies & Memoirs
- Business & Investing
- Children's Books
- Comics & Graphic Novels
- Computers & Internet
- Cooking, Food & Wine
- Entertainment
- Gay & Lesbian
- Health, Mind & Body
- History
- Home & Garden
- Horror
- Law
- Literature & Fiction
- Mystery & Thrillers
- Nonfiction
- Outdoors & Nature
- Parenting & Families
- Professional & Technical
- Reference
- Religion & Spirituality
- Romance
- Science
- Science Fiction & Fantasy
- Sports
- Teens
- Travel
Most talked about in Sex Books
The Multi-Orgasmic Couple: Sexual Secrets Every Couple Should Knowby Maneewan Chia, Douglas Abrams, Rachel Carlton Abrams Mantak Chia
HarperOne; Published: 2002; Unknown Binding; Book
Vibrators: 100 of the Best Vibrators in the Worldby Scarlet magazine
HarperCollins UK; Published: 2008-04-28; Hardcover; Book
Best price: $1.98
Price in other shops:
The Modern Kama Sutra: An Intimate Guide to the Secrets of Erotic Pleasureby Kamini Thomas, Kirk Thomas
Harper Element; Published: 2006-10-02; Paperback; Book
Beyond the Kama Sutra: Discover and experience the Secrets of Erotic Ecstasyby Eleanor McKenzie
Thorsons; Published: 2004-01-25; Paperback; Book
Best price: $4.95
Price in other shops:
The Evolution Of Desire - Revised Edition 4by David M. Buss
Basic Books; Published: 2003-07; Paperback; Book
Best price: $10.19
Price in other shops:
A Chicken's Guide to Talking Turkey with Your Kids About Sexby Kevin Leman, Kathy Flores Bell
Zondervan; Published: 2004-03-16; Hardcover; Book
Best price: $5.49
Price in other shops:
Just Do It: How One Couple Turned Off the TV and Turned On Their Sex Lives for 101 Days (No Excuses!)by Douglas Brown
Crown; Published: 2008-06-24; Hardcover; Book
Best price: $1.96
Price in other shops:
America Unzipped: In Search of Sex and Satisfactionby Brian Alexander
Three Rivers Press; Published: 2008-12-30; Paperback; Book
Best price: $7.89
Price in other shops:
Hot to Make Love All Night: and Drive Your Woman Wild!by Barbara Keesling
HarperTorch; Published: 1997-09-05; Mass Market Paperback; Book
Best price: $36.99
How to Make Love Like a Porn Star: A Cautionary Taleby Jenna Jameson
It Books; Published: 2010-02-01; Paperback; Book
Best price: $9.65
Price in other shops:
Similar Books and other products
The Secrets of Great G-Spot Orgasms and Female Ejaculation: The Best Positions and Latest Techniques for Creating Powerful, Long-Lasting, Full-Body Orgasmsby Tristan Taormino
QUA; Quiver; Published: 2011-10-01; Paperback; Book
Best price: $12.62
Price in other shops:
The Modern Kama Sutra: The Ultimate Guide to the Secrets of Erotic Pleasureby Kamini Thomas, Kirk Thomas
Da Capo Press; Published: 2005-11-16; Paperback; Book
Best price: $11.33
Price in other shops:
Coping With Premature Ejaculation: How to Overcome PE, Please Your Partner & Have Great Sexby Barry W. McCarthy Ph.D., Michael E. Metz Ph.D.
New Harbinger Publications; Published: 2004-01-01; Paperback; Book
Best price: $10.25
Price in other shops:
Squirms, Screams and Squirts: Going from Great Sex to Extraordinary Sexby Robert J Rubel
Nazca Plains Corp; Published: 2007-09-18; Paperback; Book
Best price: $12.99
Price in other shops:
The Art of Sensual Massage: 40th Anniversary Editionby Gordon Inkeles
Arcata Arts; Published: 2011-09-01; Paperback; Book
Best price: $12.73
Price in other shops:
Female Ejaculation: Unleash the Ultimate G-Spot Orgasmby Somraj Pokras, Ph.D. Jeffre Talltrees
Amorata Press; Published: 2008-11-11; Paperback; Book
Best price: $8.85
Price in other shops:
Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasmby Nicole Daedone
Grand Central Life & Style; Published: 2011-05-25; Hardcover; Book
Best price: $13.38
Price in other shops:
Passionista: The Empowered Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Manby Ian Kerner
William Morrow Paperbacks; Published: 2008-03-01; Paperback; Book
Best price: $7.41
Price in other shops:
The Guide to Getting It Onby Paul Joannides
Goofy Foot Press; Published: 2009-01-20; Paperback; Book
Best price: $15.29
Price in other shops:
I Love Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guideby Dorian Solot, Marshall Miller
Da Capo Press; Published: 2007-03-22; Paperback; Book
Best price: $9.05
Price in other shops: