Just Fuck Me! - What Women Want Men to Know About Taking Control in the Bedroom (A Guide for Couples)
by Eve Kingsley
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Author: Eve KingsleyEdition: Paperback
Audio: English (Unknown); English (Original Language); English (Published)
Published: 2008-12-16
ISBN: 0981803989
Number of pages: 124
Publisher: Secret Life Publishing
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Book Review: Couples Guide To Satisfying A Woman's Desires for an Alpha Male Lover
Summary: 4 Stars
Like me, you were probably just innocently walking along or surfing when this the title of this book reached out and grabbed your curiosity and wouldn't let go. Since the book's title has your undivided attention, just what is the book about? It's a self-help guide/instruction book/sex manual written by a woman, a feminist no less, who obviously knows what she is talking about. How can a San Francisco feminist write a book like this one? As she says, "This is not a relationship advice book. This is a guide to pleasing your woman in bed." It's her experience that one of the reasons "why women like men who are more assertive in the bedroom" is feminism. "How could something that inspires women to be strong and in control be the same reason why she wants her partner to be an alpha male in the bedroom?" These are the questions that the author answers in this fascinating 113-page book. It's impossible to answer most of the questions brought up in this tome in this short review, but the term "alpha male" does need to be defined. "Simply put, an alpha male is a man's man. Someone who exudes masculinity. Someone who looks like they'd be a challenger in a fight. A man who is all man, inside and out." This is the guy most women and feminists, according to the author, fantasize about being swept off their feet and ravished in the bedroom--but only the bedroom, not the rest of the relationship.
"Similarly, this advice is not for new couples or for causal sexual encounters. There needs to be a trusting bond" between the partners. This book "is NOT" about "BDSM techniques." The woman needs "to make sure your man understands perfectly that this is not a reflection of his masculinity...This is a sexual desire YOU have, that HE can fulfill for you."
Since American men are taught throughout life not to be "alpha males" the book is filled with techniques for the woman to teach, train her man to be a nice "alpha male." She successfully explains how to go about this seemingly paradoxical task and even if the various techniques and experiments fail, at least both partners are going to have a lot of fun failing. Following this advice is definitely going to perk up the couple's sex lives.
One word of caution for men reading and attempting to follow this guidebook, communication both verbal and otherwise before, during and after rough sex is extremely important. And while that advice sounds like one of the first commandments (along with consenting adults only) of BDSM practitioners, the author stresses that this book is not an introduction to BDSM even with the introduction of some fetish games, safe words and role-playing. She stresses that all these techniques are perfectly normal and mainstream. The feminist author's tone sounds very much like the attitude of a dominatrix, but she is probably just trying to keep her beta male in an alpha role only in the bedroom. But males need to be very, very careful with whom and how they play this alpha male role as defined by this feminist author.
If the rough sex and role-playing gets carried too far, the full weight of the sexual abuse laws can come crashing down on the man, and only the man. Becoming an alpha male in the bedroom can easily cause legal problems for the beta male trying to be the alpha male in bed to please his mate, but then having to return to the beta male in the rest of the relationship. An upset lover can easily go after her male fantasy provider legally. The man might be better off training in the real BDSM culture scene learning to be or act the role of an alpha male? In that scene written contracts are often used to avoid legal problems. It might be wise to have such a written agreement in this play between normal, so called mainstream straight lovers. That said this is definitely an eye-opening page-turner. The attention grabbing title is only there for the pure shock value for this rather straight bedroom guide for pleasing the female part of a heterosexual couple.
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"You're the Man... Act Like One!" Look, I know you're not a mind reader, so I'm going to be blunt... The majority of women like to be fucked. And I mean really fucked. Yes, the media has lied to you. Sure, there are some women that want to lay on their backs, look into your eyes, and gently rock back and forth, but most of us want you to channel the power of the Sun through your penis and give us a good, solid pounding. Act like you want it, for God's sake! In this book, I'm going to lay out exactly what the majority of women want and show you exactly how to give it to them. I've got a section just for you and one for your female partner, so you can feel 100% comfortable letting loose on her vagina in the way she's secretly craving. Some of the topics we'll cover... The Alpha Male - It's more than just being an ex-fratboy douchebag, who still thinks he's on the high school football team. I'll clue you in. Dirty Talk - Trust me, she wants it. If she didn't, she'd fuck a mime. Speaking of, did you know Marcel Marceau was divorced three times? Enough said. Role Playing - How she really feels about pretending to be the babysitter, a whore, and a student looking for a little "extra credit." I'll take you through the top 11 Alpha Male fantasies...including one so controversial, I can't even mention it here. The Art of Being Assertive - Sack up and take control! What to do...and what not to do. Sexual Communication - Both you and your partner have needs and good communication, both verbal and non-verbal, is crucial when it comes to getting them on the table. I'll show you how to communicate "Alpha Male Style." You'll learn what to say...and how to say it. Now that I've got you all hyped up and extremely aware of the need to please your woman, let's go about succeeding at it. Let's get down to brass tacks. What are you waiting for? Buy the book already! Eve Kingsley is a feminist writer based in San Francisco. She teaches couples how to push the boundaries of a sexual relationship to create new levels of honesty, intimacy, and trust.Sex Books
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