If Only He Knew: What No Woman Can Resist
by Gary Smalley, Norma Smalley
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Author: Gary Smalley, Norma SmalleyEdition: Mass Market Paperback
Audio: English (Unknown); English (Original Language); English (Published)
Published: 1997-01-13
ISBN: 0310214785
Number of pages: 208
Publisher: Zondervan
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Book Review: This book can change your life and marriage for the better
Summary: 5 Stars
This book is for any man who wants to understand the woman he loves. I would recommend it to be read even by those who feel they have a great relationship already. I married my childhood sweetheart, a girl I have loved since we were so young we NEVER remember not being in love with each other and always expected to spend our lives together. She was 3 and I was 6 when she first told me we would get married. About 17 years later we did, and this is our 26th year of marriage, with 4 children. When I read this book, it turned into a genuine spiritual experience for me. It was much like my Christian salvation experience in that it was like blinders had been tken from my eyes, I was overwhelmed with guilt, and realized I needed to make some serious changes. I knew I had failed to appreciate my wonderful wife as much as I should have, and I saw how her love and strength had made our marriage survive. I had hurt her so many times, and so deeply, I wasn't sure she could heal. I tried to make things better, not really knowing how or what to do. This book let me understand for the first time in my life, just how much my wife had consistently demonstrated her love for me, and how I could work WITH her to have a great marriage. Most of all, I realized she had submitted to me always, but I had not truly submitted to her, like many men seeing the submission part for women, and not that men are just as much in submission to their wives. Also, I realized I had failed God who had given me this woman, by not truly honoring her as I should. So it let me fulfill my relationship with God, and with my wife. Some of the book expressed things my wife had tried to tell me, but this book made it all clear in ways a man can understand. The book also made things better in my relationships with other women, in-laws, my children etc. I also purchased all the other books by the Smalleys that I could find. I should also mention that I read "The Five Languages Of Love" by Gary Chapman just before this book, which was very valuable also. I would highly recommend it.
"If Only He Knew" should be read by all men who want to have a great marriage. I think a non-Christian with an open mind would still gain tremendously from the book, but it is geared toward a Christian audience. I have to question the very negative review I read and wonder if there was a real effort to do more than just "spend more timne with my family", or whatever. This book Should make you evaluate your marriage in many areas, and if you are like me you will not feel burdened or bothered to do it. You will be overjoyed to discover ways to truly be a great husband, and even if you aren't as lucky as me with such a wonderful wife, follow this book and your wife is bound to come around. I was shocked that just the apology, given sincerely, of how I had hurt her, melted my wife's heart and broght us closer than ever. I was specific about things, and then patient to give my wife some time to see the changes were real and sincere. I did not push her at all. Honestly, I never knew things could be so great. But if you ar just going through the motions, trying to find some tricks to manipulate your wife, like I think the one reviewer was, than don't be surprised at your results. This book is about understanding your wife to develop a great marriage, not tricking her into being the way you want her to be. Just read the book guys. Give it and your marriage a chance. Then don't thank me-thank God, your wife, and the Smalleys. Because if you are as fortunate as me you'll never be the same.
Summary of If Only He Knew: What No Woman Can Resist
A how-to book for men that seeks to clarify distinctions between the sexes with a view toward building a stronger marital relationship with this understanding.Christian Living Books
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