Gringa: A Contradictory Girlhood

Gringa: A Contradictory Girlhood
by Melissa Hart

Gringa: A Contradictory Girlhood
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Author: Melissa Hart
Edition: Paperback
Audio: English (Unknown); English (Original Language); English (Published)
Published: 2009-09-22
ISBN: 1580052940
Number of pages: 276
Publisher: Seal Press

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Book Review: One of my favorite books
Summary: 5 Stars

Gringa: A Contradictory Girlhood

Coming of age is probably the most difficult, angst ridden time of our little lives (not to mention how fashion ridiculous we were) but for Melissa Hart, her girlhood went from ideal, to all of the above, including her parents divorce thrown into the mix but a divorce made all the more difficult by her mother leaving her father for another woman. In the 1970's, where a gay parent was even more taboo, Melissa and her siblings could only see their mother on weekends, courtesy of her father who thundered, "You can't be parented by two women. It's unnatural."

To make things even more interesting, the physical topography go from Manhattan Beach with her overbearing father, to Oxnard, California where her bohemian mother has establishes herself in a Latino neighborhood. Miss Hart's world of perfection and propriety with her loving but subservient step mother and tyrant of a father, chafes at every turn, for with her mother, she is encouraged to be herself and she learns to embrace the easy and genial Latino community. In turn this sparks her need to belong to a "culture" and the results are funny, heartrending and will strike an all too familiar chord in all of us.

No matter what era we came of age, no matter the circumstances, we all want to be accepted and belong, somewhere, somehow. With Miss Hart, the usual phases were complicated by not knowing which world she belonged. Moreover, if we doubted our sexuality, Melissa's doubt were exacerbated by wondering if she should be like her mom. Again the results of exploring those avenues are poignant, sometimes hilarious and always leaving her wondering if she will ever belong.

The best part of this book is traveling with Miss Hart and the cast of characters that populate her world. She evokes images so real that you can feel the tension and smell the clean in her father's house. You can drift away on the Latino music and smell the food cooking in the backyard of her mother's neighborhood. You can relate to and really squirm on many levels as Miss Hart describes the fashion of the day and when the music of the 70's and 80's become part of the backdrop of a story she relates, you WILL remember and the songs just may get stuck in your head!

What I enjoyed the most about this book, was the emotions conveyed without varnish, the humor readily available even in bad times and most of all, something unique to this book: recipes. Through all the turmoil and telling of her story, Miss Hart ends each chapter with a recipe. Not just any recipe but one that has meaning and relevance to it's preceding chapter. Recipes like Frito Boats, Annie's Special Chili and WASP milkshakes, all with appropriate ingredients and a few unexpected ones as well and all with a huge dose of emotion. They are well worth trying and you will remember the reason why and how they came into being every time you make them.

Someone said this is a story written from the new America. Indeed, but living through teenage years, overcoming whatever we had thrown at us and making our way in the world is as old as time itself. Miss Hart's journey is one not to miss.

Summary of Gringa: A Contradictory Girlhood

Torn between the high socioeconomic status of her father and the bohemian lifestyle of her mother, Melissa Hart tells a compelling story of contradiction in this coming-of-age memoir. Set in 1970s Southern California, Gringa is the story of a young girl conflicted by two extremes. On the one hand there?s life with her mother, who leaves her father to begin a lesbian relationship, taking Hart and her two siblings along. Hart tells of her mom?s new life in a Hispanic neighborhood of Oxnard, California, and how these new surroundings begin to positively shape Hart herself. At the opposite extreme is her father?s white-bread well-to-do security, which is predictable and stable and boring. Hart is made all the more fraught with frustration when a judge rules that being raised by two women is “unnatural? and grants her father primary custody.

Hart weaves a powerful story of fleeting moments with her mother, of her unfolding adoration of Oxnard?s Latino culture, and of the ways in which she?s molded by the polarity of her parents? worldviews. Hart is faced with opposing ideals, caught between what she is “supposed? to want and what she actually desires. Gringa offers a touching, reflective look at one girl?s struggle with the dichotomies of class, culture, and sexuality.

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