Attaching in Adoption: Practical Tools for Today's Parents

Attaching in Adoption: Practical Tools for Today's Parents
by Deborah D. Gray

Attaching in Adoption: Practical Tools for Today's Parents
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Author: Deborah D. Gray
Edition: Hardcover
Audio: English (Original Language); English (Unknown); English (Published)
Published: 2002-05
ISBN: 0944934293
Number of pages: 391
Publisher: Perspectives Press (IN)
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Book Review: This book changed our family!
Summary: 5 Stars

As a foster parent (and adoptive mom to a child with RAD), we often have long-term placements with all types of attachment issues, both temporary and long-lasting. We had a three-year old that we just couldn't find a way to reach. I downloaded this to my Kindle one night and started reading... and chapter 10 on Anxiety changed our family. It described our foster child perfectly! Not only did it give coindtructive ideas on how to help and handle this child, it validated our experiences which no one else was lucky enough to observe. The bahaviors, the attitude, the inability to calm down during a tantrum... all there on paper and I felt like a validated mom again instead of a big failure. This book did not talk down to me as a parent while remaining easy to read and packed with valuable info. I recommend this to ANY foster or adoptive parent. It just might save your family!

Summary of Attaching in Adoption: Practical Tools for Today's Parents

Proper attachment is the most fundamental issue in a successful adoption, but what exactly does the term mean? Attaching in Adoption answers that question thoroughly, and it provides solutions to a variety of specific attachment problems.

Along with technical explanations of challenges such as self-esteem, childhood grief, and limit-testing, the book includes a tremendous number of personal vignettes illustrating attachment-related situations. Parents who are convinced that only their child has ever behaved a certain way are sure to take comfort in these stories; not only do they include kids from all backgrounds and age groups, but each has an ultimately happy ending. The emotional health of the whole family is also paramount according to the book--with plenty of rest and "alone time," caregivers are more likely to be emotionally available when they are most needed.

Because Attaching in Adoption focuses on special needs, families who are coming together through foster programs, at later ages, or across cultural lines will find it especially helpful. Both psychologically detailed and straightforwardly helpful, it can be of equal benefit to counselors and parents alike. --Jill Lightner

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