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A Man Named Dave: A Story of Triumph and Forgiveness by Dave Pelzer
Book Summary InformationAuthor: Dave Pelzer Edition: Paperback Audio: English (Unknown); English (Original Language); English (Published) Published: 2000-09-01 ISBN: 0452281903 Number of pages: 284 Publisher: Plume Accessories:
Book Reviews of A Man Named Dave: A Story of Triumph and ForgivenessBook Review: Even i couldn't believe how moved and emitional i became Summary: 5 Stars
Dave pelzer, if you read this, i think you are such an extraordinary man and i admire you for being so brave. Your life has so many values which we can learn from,and by reading this book, you have probably made me feel more emotional than i have ever felt about someone, and not myself. And it helps me, when i think about what i would like to do in the future. This is for everyone else, Dave pelzers life is one to be noticed and remebered. Although shocking, it hits you hard even more for the reason that things like this are really happening, and this must be put to an end. Fortunately for Dave there were people who put their job on the line to save his life, and lead him to one where he would be given the chance to live a real life, although he suffered so much that no - one else could ever imagine. Things happened to him which i thought were not possible, it shocked me when reading about the way his drunken mother abused him, physically and mentally by playing games, and only being nice to him, when she knew the social service were coming, leading him to think that everything was over - it makes you think, 'well why bring this child into the world, and give them a life such as this, of violence and abuse'. I know this sounds like a report which is not telling you about the book, because this is not my point. I recommend you to read this, because it is so moving, and even for those people who aren't particulary emotional people, sometimes like me, it even touches you, and it goes deep down into your heart because you know what you are reading is real and horrifying, yet this person has surived, and you can't imagine how. It is a story about probably the bravest and strongest person i have ever known of. If it was me in his past situation then i know that i would have wanted to die. And although at times, Dave did, he still had that little bit left in him, that made him want to survive, show that mother of his, that one day, he would become something, but yet it was to survive and make something of himself, for himself. When i was reading the first part of the book 'a boy called it', there were many times when i actually cried when i read about all that he suffered and the way he had been abused. There are so many people, in the world, who believe that they've had it bad, and fair enough some of them may have, but it's nothing compared to this, and i know that its wrong to compare people's trauma because it affect different people in different ways, but once you've read this, you'll know what i mean, but its not even as though you are comparing them to some person in a book, but a real person, who couragously told the world about his real life. He could have easily kept this to himself, like most of us porbably would, but this amazing man, who could have turned the most psychologically retarded person, but thank fully he didn't, otherwise we would not have been given the chance to learn of one man's brave, and amazing energy and will to survive the worst possible trauma someone could be put through. Finally all i want to say is that this book, is truly an amazing journey to read, and it makes you look at things in a different perspective, and it makes you see just how un - perfect this world in which we live in is. There are children similar to Dave, and Daves book seems to have spoken for many of those poor souls - who, all they want is love and comfort. This really is a journey of a very brave man, and he is truly inspiring......Deepa
Summary of A Man Named Dave: A Story of Triumph and Forgiveness"All those years you tried your best to break me, and I'm still here. One day you'll see, I'm going to make something of myself." --Dave Pelzer, from A Man Named Dave These words were Dave Pelzer's declaration of independence to his mother, and they represented the ultimate act of self-reliance. Dave's father never intervened as his mother abused him with shocking brutality, denying him food and clothing, torturing him in any way she could imagine. This was the woman who told her son she could kill him any time she wanted to-and nearly did. The more than two million readers of Pelzer's previous international bestsellers, A Child Called "It" and The Lost Boy, know that he lived to tell his courageous story. A Man Named Dave is the gripping conclusion to his inspirational trilogy. With stunning generosity of spirit, Dave Pelzer invites readers on his journey to discover how he turned shame into pride and rejection into acceptance. The third tale in David Pelzer's autobiographical trilogy, A Man Named Dave is an inspiring story of terror, recovery, and hope experienced by the author throughout his life. Known for his work as a child abuse advocate, Pelzer has been commended by several U.S. presidents and international agencies, and his previous memoirs of growing up as an abused child (A Child Called "It" and The Lost Boy) have touched thousands of lives. He provides living proof that we can "stop the cycle" and lead fulfilling, rewarding lives full of healthy relationships. Ultimately triumphant, this book will have you living through the eyes of a terrified child, a struggling young man, and an adult finally forgiving his dying father--reading with tissues nearby is recommended. Ending with a touching conversation between the author and his own son, you'll finish reading this with a warm heart and an enriched understanding of the need for compassion in all parts of life. --Jill Lightner
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